Every secret to success only begins by having the full demonstration of yourself. Nothing can come bad from spending time alone and dig out your brightest and darkest parts. You need to appreciate yourself, give yourself a pat on your behind for coming so far. Start listing your desires and actions you take according to them. When you take notes of your desires and passion it what tells you about your weaknesses which stops you from pursuing it. Well, nobody really wants to think about their weaknesses because it gives us a negative vibe. Therefore rather than spending time on it, you should take your strengths into consideration. Every person comes from a different box and you just need to realize where you do fit well. Then the next thing is to focus on your strengths which leads you to complete manual of your own self. If you want to take notes and compare them, you can do that too. Just remember, you have everything you need.