When you make your own rules, it’s not about showing off or proving someone else wrong. It is about setting do’s and don’ts for your life. Everybody has the right of living their life in their own way. But the rules they make should do no harm to others. Sometimes the rules which don’t build you, should be broken and a new set of rules should be made by your ownself. There are many ways to create your own rules. Sometimes we admire some people around us and what they do. It changes the way how we see life and we start expecting something better from ourselves. The set of rules are sometimes just assumptions about how your life should be and how much better you can make it for your own self and others. For that, you need to understand yourself and meditation can be a good start. It is ok to break some rules and make new ones.